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Separation Strategies
How to live with your spouse through a separation – Boutet in Huffington Post
Divorce is never easy but, from conscious uncoupling to nesting, people are increasingly seeking ways to make the process of separation less painful. Minimizing disruption for the kids is often a top priority for parents, and the reality is that…
Make These Moves First when Divorce Strikes – Boutet on Advisor.ca
The early stages of a family breakdown often prompt unsettling questions for separating spouses. Most people want to minimize the disruption and protect their legal and financial rights. Often, they will begin a frantic search online for credible information about…
Blended family makes long-distance relationship work – Boutet in The Toronto Star
Today’s divorcees are more likely than ever to share the parenting equally — and that’s a good thing. The law on custody and access in Ontario starts “with a presumption that both parents should have equal time with the kids.”…
Choice of lawyer sends strong signal from outset of divorce
There is one strategic step members of family-owned businesses can take from the initial stages of a divorce to keep some control over the outcome of the divorce: choosing the right lawyer.
Financial planners can help draft divorce settlements – Boutet in Advisor.ca
Boutet outlines the role of advisors as a critically important part of divorce settlements, complementing the skills of attorneys. Read the full article in Advisor.ca.
Rise above emotions when negotiating – Nathalie Boutet In Lawyers Weekly
Negotiation is an important skill in both life and business. When you are posed with a difficult decision, are you able to leave emotions out of it? “Notice that good leaders never seem upset — they always know what to…
Managing over Divorce Month – Boutet on AM640
Nathalie Boutet on AM640 provides tips for managing the difficult transition over Divorce Month.
Newly Separated Over the Holidays – Boutet on 680 News
Nathalie Boutet on 680 News with advice for newly separated parents over the holidays.
Holiday tips for the newly separated – Nathalie Boutet on NewsTalk 1010
Nathalie Boutet on NewsTalk 1010 offering holiday survival tips for separated parents on how they can maintain the spirit of the holidays while holding it together.
When Helicopter Parents Divorce – Boutet in The Toronto Star
Boutet comments on parents who are too involved with their kids and who may inadvertently be creating more problems than solutions… Read the full article in The Toronto Star.
Tackling the New School Year as a Newbie Divorcee – Nathalie Boutet in Huffington Post
With the new school year around the corner, parents who are facing separation or divorce often find this a very contentious time for themselves and their children. In addition to the painful process of undergoing a separation or divorce, starting…
Divorce Myths Debunked
There are many common misconceptions when it comes to the topic of divorce that families may not be aware of. Nathalie Boutet, Family Law Lawyer, Conflict Resolution Specialist and Accredited Mediator can speak to the following myths vs realities when…
Leave Negativity at the Door in Family Law Proceedings
Bad-mouthing a client or gossiping about opposing counsel in a family law proceeding is a signal that you may be part of the problem instead of the solution, Toronto family lawyer Nathalie Boutet recently told attendants of Collaborative Practice Durham…
Plan a Summer Move with Less Stress
Great article on tips for parents who are moving to a new house post separation. Visit Collaborative Practice Toronto to read.
Travelling with Kids Post Separation
Travelling with your children post-separation requires some thinking and planning to avoid some common pitfalls. It’s not uncommon for parents to notice behaviour differences in their children when they return from a trip with their other parent. This can be…
Separating is Hard – Don’t Go Through Your Separation Alone
Divorce can be a painful and difficult process for everyone involved. Especially for children who are often caught in between the strong emotions of their parents. Parents need to balance feelings of anger, sadness and – often – fear with…
Be upfront with ex-spouse about dating after divorce
Maturity, respect, and rising above emotions are all key elements to a smooth transition into dating after divorce, Toronto family lawyer Nathalie Boutet said on a recent edition of What She Said! Watch Video Boutet joined hosts Kate Wheeler and…
Dating After Divorce & Science Behind It – Nathalie Boutet on CanadaTalks
Dating after divorce can be difficult, especially if there are children involved. Keeping communication with your former spouse about your want to begin dating again will help your children come to terms with a new person in their lives. Natalie…
Dating after Divorce
The majority of divorced Canadians find relationships again, often remarrying. For anyone dating for the first time after their marriage has ended, the decision on when and how to introduce a new partner to the children is a tough one.…
Holiday Tips to Families Thinking of Separating or Who Have Separated
The spirit of the holidays is all about Family. But what happens when that family is in the middle of a major change or a marital breakdown? While we often hear that January is ‘Divorce month’ because married couples try…
Changing Perspectives: Nathalie Boutet talks Amicable Divorce and Conscious Uncoupling with Gary Doyle
The are many alternatives to the ‘messy divorce.’ Check out this radio interview during which family lawyer Nathalie Boutet talks with Gary Doyle about how the perspective needs to change, and how collaborative law plays a major role. Listen to…